Want to Get His Love Back? Here's What You Have To Do

Published: 03rd March 2009
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If you are a woman who is trying to get back together with your husband, you must believe that it is possible to do so. One of the enduring features of our human existence is faith, and the almost impossible possibilities that lie therein. There have been many broken marriages that have been mended and many wives can testify to the faithfulness of God in their marriages. Many women can say with finality, that "I was able to get his love back" not because of what I did, but because I had faith in God to do the impossible. They dared to obey God, and he gave them their desires.

Now, this is a more spiritual article, and I do not apologize for it in any way. However, I hope you will stay with me, so that we can explore some of the reasons why some women have been able to get back with their husbands even when the odds were stacked against them, and getting his love back looked like an impossible task. On the face of it, marriage is not just a tradition. It is an institution that has it's genesis from the creation of man. A traditional marriage between a man and a woman is an institution that God established and continues to honour to this day. If you have lost the love of your husband and you really want to get his love back, here are a few tips.

The first thing to do, is to realize what not to do. Silly emotional tactics like constantly crying, seeking revenge, and sabotaging his life are not worth pursuing. Instead, you can begin by sending out good emotions, and good words towards him. Instead of berating him in front of his children, for example, you can bless him, pray for him, and let your children know that he is a good man, who is coming back home soon. Here's the thing. If you really have faith to get his love back, you have to not just believe it in your heart, but you have to speak it with your mouth. Your whole life must be congruent with your desire.

Secondly, if you are asking the Lord to help you get his love back, you should also realize that God requires obedience from you. I have never seen or heard of anyone who complains to God about a spouse, and not be asked by the Lord to do some introspection first. The reason is very simple. The Lord rarely fixes our relationships miraculously. Instead he shows us what to do to win back the spouse and to keep the spouse.

The Lord knows we are not perfect. If you still have the same faults that caused your husband or wife to leave you in the first place, simply getting your spouse back will not solve the problem. Will it? And for heaven's sake, please don't say it was not your fault. It may not have been completely your fault, but we all have some faults, if we are honest enough to admit it.

What we really need to do, is to allow the Lord to change us into the wife or husband he would like us to be. As a woman who has allowed the Lord to create his perfect image within you, your spouse will be coming back to a better woman. Perhaps that is the only time you can truly say that you deserve to get his love back.

Anthony Chambers is a writer and Consultant. Need help getting his love back? Get some time-tested resources and tools from Anthony's new website: at: get his love back. You can also see other original articles by this author at: Marriage and Relationships

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